I have learned that milk, chamomile tea, doing some exercise and melatonin supplements can all promote healthy sleep. Well me, I just prefer multiple orgasms!!!! LOL. Nothing can put me to sleep better after a night of wild sex. And also because it's more beneficial and fun to do :) I am sure men would agree to the things I had just said. Do you? So what I want in a man? I think it's not about what he has but what he can give (and I'm not talking about material things). I don't want to look for things that aren't even there. I want to have the things he already has and grow from there. If he has the talent in oral then we ought to do that and be good at it. If he's great in making conversation I think that would be great too since I like to be stimulated.